The Philippine Online Chronicles

The POC
Saturday
Feb 04
Home News Breaking Stories Gabriela files divorce bill

Gabriela files divorce bill

Women’s party-list group Gabriela has re-filed a controversial bill seeking to legalize divorce.

Currently, Philippine law only allows for legal separation and annulment. The country is one out of only two in the world (the other being the Vatican City) which does not allow divorce.

A divorce law would allow “married couples in irreparable marriages another legal remedy that they can resort to in addition to the country’s existing laws on legal separation and annulment,” said Gabriela Representatives Luzviminda Ilagan and Emerenciana De Jesus in filing House Bill No. 1799.

“Couples must have the option to avail of the remedies that will pave the way for the attainment of their full human development and self-fulfillment and have protection of their human rights. Existing laws are not enough to guarantee and protect these rights,” they said.

They added that divorce might allow people to walk out of abusive marriages, citing 2009 police statistics which shows at least 19 women suffering physical abuse at the hands of partners every day.

“For women in abusive marital relationships, the need for a divorce law is real. It is high time that we give Filipino couples, especially the women, this option,” they added.

The bill proposes that divorce may be filed when the couple have been estranged for at least five years, or legally separated for at least two years, with little hope of reconciliation; when any of the grounds for legal separation has caused the irreparable breakdown of the marriage; when either or both people are psychologically incapable of complying with the essential marital obligations; and when the spouses suffer from irreconcilable differences which cause the breakdown of the marriage.

The bill immediately gave rise to strong opposition.

“That is like giving a married couple a weapon of mass destruction that they can use against each other even for petty, solvable marital problems,” warned Parañaque Representative Roilo Golez.

"Look at what’s happening in other countries with divorce. Half of my classmates at Annapolis ended up divorcing a few years after they got married, many because of flimsy reasons by their own admission," he added.

Buhay party-list Representative Erwin Tieng added that divorce was an “exit clause from a very important union,” and that it might be preferable to advocate marriage counseling and “better family relations” programs.

"I believe it will not prosper as there is an overwhelming majority of congresspersons who believe in the sanctity of the family and its preservation as primary fabric of society," added Marikina Representative Romero Federico Quimbo.

He added that it would be better to improve the already existing laws which allow couples to dissolve a troubled marriage.

"The solution is to make these laws more accessible and equitable. The solution is not to make dissolution easier through divorce. The state should spend more resources counseling and advicing couples especially the poor who don’t have access to psychiatrists. Preservation, not destruction of the family," he said.

Other legislators have voiced support for the proposed law.

"Though it will encourage a lot of debates, this will be good as it will really bring the real picture of the state of family and how we can ensure and protect everyone’s rights," said Zambales Representative Ma. Milagros Magsaysay.

Negros Occidental Representative Ignacio Arroyo Jr. and Akbayan Representative Walden Bello, have also said they are “in favor” of the bill.

"Let’s join the 20th century," said Bello.



Add this page to your favorite Social Bookmarking websites
Digg! Reddit! Del.icio.us! Google! Live! Facebook! StumbleUpon! Newsvine! TwitThis
 
Comments
Add New RSS

Disclaimer: Comments posted here reflect our readers’ views and not the opinion of The Philippine Online Chronicles.

apple 12 August 10, 10:21 PM
i vote yes for the legalization of divorce in the Philippines..it would help wounded couples to have a fresh new start..its very hard to stay/live together everyday, everymoment in one roof with someone with misunderstandings, ireconciable differences,hurt, violence, maltreatment,etc..could you stand that way? we are human. we have feelings. we have needs. we want to be treated right..to be loved..to be respected. to be cared..however, in most cases,people discover new and lasting relationship with other person. Let divorce give freedom and chance those who are in bondage of failed marriages...i hope that divorce will be legalized in our country...there are many people that would benefit from it..i would like to address the Catholic church..TO PLEASE REFRAIN FROM INTERVENING THE GOVERNMENT.or any religous group.you can not say its perfect. stop being idealistic..you do not feel what we feel..just enjoy your gift of celibacy...we are different. your call is different from us... we also want happy family, just give us another chance...
UP nn grad 13 August 10, 10:38 AM
To all the Congressmen, Senators and their spouses. Look at your children and grandchildren, and then know this to be true. At least one of them will find themselves in a totally destructive marriage. That is the track-record of Filipinos getting married.

For that child or grandchild who will be in a destructive marriage --- give them the divorce law so they can right their lives. Then add cousins, nieces and nephews. Misery in a failed marriage!!! Give them the divorce law.
yuri 06 October 10, 04:41 AM
The "yes"
We all know that everyone deserves a second chance. Someone wanting a divorce is a way to say " i made a mistake". People always say.. "Ang pag-aasawa, hindi parang kanin na pag napaso ka, iluluwa mo." It just meant that you can never turn back. But in reality, the moment your tongue felt that it's too hot, you spit it out without thinking. Marriage was said to be bonded by love and respect but what if it's not there anymore? Stay together for the children.. Is it healthy for children to see their parents shouting and fighting almost every time? Children should grow in a harmonious environment where they can witness love and respect.

The conflict
-Second chance? yes.. Third, fourth, fifth chance? don't make me stupid.
-There is a chance that some will just "abuse" divorce.
- We already have legal separation and annulment in our country.
- Filipinos have strong family ties and are religious. Those who are married in the Church swore to God that they will "love each other till death do us part."
isabel 17 October 10, 09:15 PM
what is "love each other till death do us part"?? even if husband and wife are always fight to the point the the kids are suffering? do you thing God will like that? and you don't have respect to your partner anymore is that right? do you think God will like it to man or woman suffering because of the wrong person you married? "Jesus said take care of your self and I will do the rest" do you think your taking care of your self if you are letting your partner abuse you?? I don't think so... I agree with DIVORCE here in the Philippines it is for every SUFFERING couple's right for them to be free....
ferbie 07 February 11, 09:18 AM
Yes! Divorce-Divorce-Divorce! Make it a law! Wake-up legislators. Church law and Government law are two different entity. There's nothing to argue about that. Ask yourselves, why did Vatican approved the divorce law in their country? Only Philippines and Malta don't accept divorce while the whole world does. The population of Malta is only 365++ thousand compared to the Philippine population and the world. Annulment is accepted in the Philippines because this is a big business of corrupt lawyers. It will cost you Php 200++ thousand and more not including the psychological testing and a tons of hidden charges. This is one source of corruption in the country. That's why the Philippines is branded as the most corrupted government in the world. President Aquino, I respect! Your sister Kris has all the money to spent for here annulment. How many relationship did she end-up breaking. whoever fault it is, still they break-up. Easy for her right? How about people who doesn't have the same resources like Kris Aquino? Filipino people end up committing adultery because they don't have money like your sister. Continued abused, sufferings and later on death. Open your mind and make a CHANGE! Remove one source of corruption in your government. Remember that Philippines is composed of different religions not only Roman Catholic. Don't be selfish and bias. You are still single, you don't know how it feels to get hurt from a spouse. Ask your sister Kris about it. Maybe she could enlighten you!!!
Write comment
Name:
Email:
 
Title:
Please input the anti-spam code that you can read in the image.

!joomlacomment 4.0 Copyright (C) 2009 Compojoom.com . All rights reserved."

Share on facebook